This weekend I spent Friday and Saturday doing research. I watched two shows on Netflix. Do not judge me; both shows took a different unorthodox method to finding a husband or wife.
Digging deep into each storyline, I analyzed each situation.
Here's what I learned:
People are complex in and out of relationships
Past trauma impact each person differently
People need time to heal
Communication is key
Active Listening is key
Never Lie
Be honest with yourself
Bitterness saves no one
This list could go on but this list above really resented.
I think people must understand their love language. You may not know, but at least
you can explore what works and does not work for your situation.
I am a firm believer in keeping people out of your relationship. Remember they may not be as open as you are when it comes to certain situations.
Do you discuss your boundaries? Do you know your boundaries?
I feel this is key in any relationship. Think about your current or past relationship. What did or have you learned from it? What would you or are you doing differently?
It all starts with a conversation. Time to talk.
PS. I did not say text, I said talk.
