Recently I had a discovery about some life events I experienced.
I realized many discussions/choices I made were not my own.
I pleased others and did what I needed to win approval or make them proud.
I began to understand why my path had so many twists and turns. I was walking the walk of others vs. my own. Their shoes did not fit well, creating some difficult times in my life.
Funny thing, when I was not successful, I was criticized.
I heard the remark, " Why did you do that?"
If you could only see my face, it was a look of " that's what you told me to do."
I survived it all and ended up stronger; for it.
Yes, this was an accomplishment.
I now protect my peace and aspects of my life.
I make the decision(s) on how I will move.
I am not trying to match my energy with others but with myself.
At this point, people may not agree with my decision(s) and,
I understand it's who they are and their thing.
I am still going to make level-up types of moves.
It feels good knowing my decisions are creating more harmony in my life.
Am happy!
My unique imprint is left; everyone will see my accomplishments.
A decision made for the betterment of self and all concern...how can you go wrong? And, even then, the decision process continues.