"The more shared past
there is in a relationship,
the more present you
need to be, otherwise, you
will be forced to relive the
past again and again."
~Eckhart Tolle
Reflect on this quote for a minute; what does it mean to you? We all could interpret
this in a variety of ways. For myself, it's a reminder to live in the present vs. the past.
There is nothing I can do to change my past. I can learn and grow from it.
Remember the joy and even the heartache. It's all about growth and living your best life.
What are you willing to do to protect your peace, live your best life and, be the best so you
can share your light with the world?
When asking questions about someone's past or being asked about your past, the question that needs to be asked is, "Why are you asking?" There is NO fine line to being nosey. If the question is being asked to better learn as to what makes you YOU then okay. To me, if you're asking about my past relationships, especially if it's about how many and was I intimate with any/all of them - then no!
The past is owned by you! And, to reveal any part of it is your prerogative. I treat it on a need-to-know basis. PERIOD!