It's important to listen to others and understand their perspectives before jumping to conclusions or trying to prove your own point. Sometimes, it's better to simply listen and learn from others rather than constantly trying to assert your own opinions. This can lead to better communication and relationships with others.
There are situation when people will lie to make themselves look good. This can be a hurtful experience, especially if the person is someone you trust or care about. It is important to remember that their actions are a reflection of their own insecurities and not a reflection of your character. It is important to confront the situation and stand up for yourself, but also understand that their behavior is a reflection of them, not you.
Here are some suggestions on how to handle this situation. You can do the following:
.1. Stay calm and collected: Reacting with anger or frustration will only escalate the situation. Take a deep breath and try to remain composed.
2. Ask for clarification: Sometimes people may unknowingly exaggerate or omit information, rather than outright ..lying. Ask for more details to clarify the situation.
3. Present evidence: If you have evidence that contradicts the lie, present it calmly and objectively. This can help the person realize that they have been caught in a lie.
4. Discuss the consequences: If the lie has serious consequences, such as affecting a project or relationship, make sure to discuss them with the person. This can help them understand the impact of their actions.
5. Address the underlying issue: Sometimes people lie because they are afraid of the consequences of telling the truth. Try to address the underlying issue and create a safe environment for honesty.
6. Seek outside help: If the situation is becoming too difficult to handle, seek assistance from a supervisor or HR representative. They can help mediate the situation and find a resolution.
It can be hard but in and your peace matters. Remember people who know you and your character, and heart will not believe the lie. Just breathe and don't allow them to take you outside your true self.
Beautiful write up
I have learn the hard way
Come clean / tell them your obligations even though the truth will hurt really bad!