It's important to remember that life goes on and that you don't have to stay stuck in the same old habits and patterns. Take some time to heal and process your emotions, and then start focusing on creating new and better experiences. Make positive changes that will help you move forward and grow.
It's like taking a step back to view the bigger picture. It can not be easy to see beyond your immediate situation, but once you take a second look, you can start to identify patterns and make decisions to help you create a better future.
It can mean forgiving yourself for your part at the end of the relationship. How?
Inventory what was good, bad, and ugly about the relationship. Acknowledge your feelings and take responsibility for your actions. Acknowledge the other person's feelings and take responsibility for theirs. Finally, move on and be open to new possibilities.
I would suggest you dig deep and ask yourself, did you both understand your respective love languages? If the answer is no, ask yourself, do you know your love language? If not, take some time to learn about it and make sure you and your love interest understand each other's love languages. This can help you better communicate your feelings and needs leading to a more successful relationship.
Be sure to heal yourself before you enter into another relationship. Do not bring your luggage into someone else's life. It is not fair from yourself or them. Never give up on love or think you
do not deserve love. It's out there.