Recently on Instagram, I came across a post about a narcissist. This post was listing out some of the signs on how to tell who is the victim, and who is the narcissist.
It went something like this:
The narcissist is the first to tell their story.
The narcissist usually calls their ex crazy.
One of the conclusions is the narcissist is good at playing the victim.
The narcissist will leave a trail of victims in the wake of their quest to get everything they went from you. The unfortunate reality is the victim(s) of a narcissist get no support. Where do they go after they have been traumatized and now may suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
A narcissist, in my opinion, is incapable of love. They only love themselves. You will drain all of your energy attempting to please them. You start doubting who you are and the magnificent person you are.
You can't concentrate because you are reliving past conversations with this narcissist. You have now convinced yourself you are the problem.
You will not win in this type of relationship. Narcissistic abuse is real and can be dangerous.
Remove yourself from this relationship. Get help if you need it and heal. Know people are waiting to meet you and waiting to love you.